NAME IT! 
How is your life effected by the Soft Spots, Limits, blocks, impasses that kept you from getting what you want or leading your life how you would like to lead it, generating the conditions of success for you & your life?

        Identify the soft spots.... face and welcome them!   Name ‘em!
    (In the interview process you will assist in identifying/"Naming" these.)

CLAIM IT! 
Go Meta & Claim power & dominion over these limits & declare that you now have the Resources, Strategies & Skills to overcome them (of course you will have assisted them in targeting/identifying the desired resources and start getting a commitment to put them into use too:).  Claim right now  that you’re finished with the undesirable conditions/limits & the "not so good" way of coping or living your life, behaving in ways that just don't suit you anymore.  Say out loud: 

"I no longer wish to continue living with this condition in my life &, as a matter of fact, I decide... No More!  You’re mine! I claim power over these conditions & I will have my way from this point forward... toward what I want!" 

     Now, you are ready to...

DENY IT! 
Deny its very existence... & say, 

"that’s not me anymore, I no longer allow or desire that to be a part of my identity, thoughts/beliefs, emotions or behaviors. Within my mind, I’ve made a decision & made the move mentally to get rid of these crappy conditions, limits, binds, so that I no longer experience the nonproductive effects/consequences in my life. 
I say, That’s not me anymore!  Be gone!"

NOW IT IS TIME TO FORGIVE & RELEASE... 
your self & others of the nonproductive/undesirable patterns/habits, thoughts, beliefs, emotions & behaviors. At this point, you’re now ready to let go completely... & say to yourself,

It’s Done!... 
so that you make the editions you need in your self.  You Let Go of any byproducts of the soft spot/limit & allow your self to heal from the wound, the insult, any nonproductive consequences it led to in your life. You accept your self as having made the best effort, within your means at the time, & apologize to yourself, make amends,  if you’ve been hard on your self or beat your self up or others for that matter. Let go & release your self & others from any bind this may have had on your mind, your heart or your relationship. Therefore, it frees up your mind & heart and allows you to function from the heart of the mind, to go forward, life-ward with more peace of mind... ready to make the additions/editions in you/your life & make the contact you desire in your life with the ones you do love & care about. 

     You simply Let Go of what I call "Conscious Crap" &...

GO TO NEUTRAL! 
Unwind even more... then, Clear & Center yourself. Clear out all the residue of times gone by, what you saw, heard or felt that limited you or that triggered you to experience what you have rid yourself of now. You now return to the Neutral Zone inside, in your mind, so that you can then focus on What You Want, DS!! Center your self by continuing to unwind for a few moments, breathing deeply, releasing your body so that all parts of you are in alignment towards your future self. 

     You then begin to look forward to how you want things to be & ...

DESIGN YOUR VISION OF SUCCESS, What You Want! 
Identify the Desired State, DS... what & how it would be like if it was exactly like you want... in each of the Life Zones or areas where there were previously Soft Spots, areas in your life you initially had been limited. Now you know what it is that you really do desire to have happening in your life. With this effort you invest, you clarify your values, the principles you want to live by & increase the possibility of getting what you truly do want in your life by realizing that you must have a Vision of Success & a plan of action to make it happen!  

     So, now you look ahead, forward & ...

DESIGN THE SEQUENCE OF SUCCESS, YOUR PLAN OF ACTION... 
how to make what you want happen! Step by step, along the way, creating & generating desired results. Create the conditions of success InMind first. Go First! MindFirst, on the inside.  Design a sequence of success.  You then motivate to generate DS conditions on the outside.  Go ahead and allow your mind to do the work for you, and bring to mind what it would take to get what you want to happen.  THEN,

TAKE ACTION!  MindFirst!... POWER UP! 
Make a decision right now, in a state of commitment (you will have already elicited and anchored), to no longer be denied what it is that you do want & then GO FOR IT!... one step at a time, run through the plan InMind, making happen what it is that is the next logical step, generating the conditions of success, towards getting what you want in your life & your relationship daily.  See, hear and feel right now your self doing whatever it takes to make what you want happen.  You are Taking Action to Make It Happen!  You will be ensured your Desired State because you are doing whatever it takes, W.I.T., everything you need to do to make it a reality. 

        THEN, you can truly...

EVALUATE & TAKE STOCK! 
You can really only evaluate when you have done what you need to do to make what you want happen. If you evaluate too soon, before you’ve done what it takes to get what you want... or you haven’t even stopped doing what got you what you definitely don’t want, the same ‘ole or what don’t work,... you just weren’t going to get it anyway. Now, you know that when you work your plan of action daily you will get results realizing that you’re the mapmaker, the designer, the planner & the action taker!   Say YES to this way of thinking, feeling and doing and "YES Into Being" what it is that you want!.

Go For It... Do Whatever It Takes & make it happen!!!
With WIT YOU CAN make it happen.  You will be so glad you did! :)

Author:
Elvis Keith Lester designed this pattern as a result of working with hundreds of clients in private practice for personal transformation and change.  The pattern is  a part of the Go First! MindFirst!^SM training program and is taught along with the MIND™ Model, Design Solution Model™ and DEEM™ Model (Design Engineering Excellence MindFirst™).  For more information on these models contact Elvis at Elvis@execulearn.com